How the hell does rape play even work? Is there suppose to be some element of surprise? Do you expect your lover to just tackle you as soon as you walk through the door after a long day and “rape” you? Like wut?

rapekittn:

it’s generally set up and agreed on and limits are shared, then idk, they try to make it as surprising as possible i guess lol

Surprise is overrated. It’s fun, and a good way to trigger a sexy little panic, but the thrill doesn’t outlive the moment.

Suspense, on the other hand… now that’s where it’s at, baby. The gnawing dread of an all-too-certain future can eat at a girl indefinitely, with very little manual upkeep required.

But then, I’m mean and lazy.