I was that guy, decades ago. The first time I spanked a girl with a belt, she had to practically beg for it… and I was still half-hearted about it. Tap, tap, tap. It was pathetic.
So if it’s any consolation, you never know… maybe you’ve already planted a seed in the mind of a guy who will someday grow into a me. (I hope you’re suitably ashamed of yourself.)