You can’t be an asshole when all you’re trying to do is propagate kindness.
I have a few reasons for feeling okay with my use of the word in that context, but I understand those reasons aren’t visible, and that’s entirely on me. So I’ll just say that I’ll bear your considerate note in mind for the future. And I’ll also clarify that, far from trying to evoke an image of someone with cerebral palsy, I was thinking specifically of this dumbass:
