I dunno… I don’t think of it that way. I mean, I’m not “big on” putting the leftovers in the fridge and scraping the dishes after dinner; I do it because it needs doing, and it won’t do itself. Atmospheric re-entry is no one’s favorite part of space flight, but it’s what you have to do if you want to get home.
With that said, I can cuddle and talk for hours on end, so there are certainly pleasurable aspects of aftercare. I just don’t do it for those aspects.