I’m assuming this is a response to “I was an early-20s, moderately sadistic daddy-dom once upon a time…”
What I meant is that my early 20s were —tragically!— over long ago, there’s no longer anything “moderately” about my sadism, and while people like calling me “Dad” while I tell them what to do, I don’t think I match the prevailing description of a “daddy-dom”.