hey there! i don’t really have a request for advice and i dunno why i’m really saying this here since it doesn’t truly pertain to you, but i’m just incredibly happy because i found a relationship pretty organically and then we found out we both have extremely similar “extreme” kinks, kind of on accident. i didn’t expect it to happen ‘cause the only folks i’ve dated have been either pretty vanilla (& bad people!) or of similar kinks, but bad people. this is a nice first and i’m really happy. either way, i hope you have a really nice day. you were one of the first blogs i found when i was trying to figure out my kinks and i’m super happy you’re still around, you’re fantastic! ❤️