I’m 20 and I’ve only had 1 guy before him. I never had an orgasm with anyone and I don’t know why. I feel like he’s blaming me for it.
Barring some unusual malady or a bad interaction between your libido and your meds, the most likely reason you’re not cumming is that neither of you know what you’re doing. He should understand it’s nothing to be upset about… you’re both young and clueless, that’s all.
If he wants to get you off, he’s gonna need to take the time to relax you and work you up… ideally, he’ll say something to you three hours in advance that gets you squirming and needy long before you hit the sheets. (Foreplay isn’t just finger-banging her and spitting in her mouth… it’s making it impossible for her to think about anything but me.) For your part, you need to be present and involved… no zoning out and waiting to see what happens.
Oh, and a thought: ask yourself why he blames you. “Blame” suggests that he thinks you are —on some level— purposefully withholding your orgasm from him. Putting aside the way he’s making a you-thing a him-thing, this means that instead of asking what he can do to help, he’s busy convincing himself that you’re trying to manipulate him with your dissatisfaction. You might wanna keep an eye on that.