…able to feel her fingers, and i figured i’d maybe drop this in ur inbox for her bc i know what she means about the fingers thing — most folks can’t get off fingering themselves. it doesn’t feel like much, kind of like tickling yourself? so it’s better to stick to clitoral stimulation (or getting a toy to assist!!)
It literally never occurred to me that she was trying to get herself off with digital penetration. I figured she’d rubbed her clit so long her fingers had grown numb… I even envisioned a scenario where someone had told her to put Orajel on her bits and she couldn’t feel anything.
Dear anon-from-a-few-days-ago: the average woman doesn’t orgasm from penetration. Some do —lucky them!— but there’s nothing weird about you if you don’t. Follow the above advice and have some fun.
Also… does anyone know if there’s a basic sex information site for adults out there? I know kids had Scarleteen to turn to back in the early Aughts, but Google now has it flagged as a hacked site. (This is why we can’t have nice things.) At this point, I don’t even know where to direct people of any age who need an owner’s manual for their bodies.