A week into me agreeing to not cum for a month, I accidentally came once but I never told him and now a month’s gone by and he’s super proud of me but I know I don’t deserve it😖😖😖 I want to come clean but I’m scared and he’s so happy 🙁
You know, genuine contrition can be pleasing in its own way, particularly when it’s volunteered. Make sure he knows you’re confessing because you’re ashamed of yourself, and emphasize how much it hurts to know you’re lowering his opinion of you.
Don’t get me wrong… he’s going to be unhappy. You deceived him, soaked up his praise for a month, and are making him question his judgment. But this is a recent relationship, and it’s probably worth getting a look at how he reacts to disappointment.