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Are you ok with your partner using toys to finish after sex?

If I were having vanilla sex with a vanilla person —which is unlikely to ever happen again in this lifetime— then sure, no problem.

But back in the real world, if a cunt of mine hasn’t “finished”, it’s because “finishing” isn’t something she’s allowed to do. She can grind on a toy all she likes, but getting off isn’t on her menu.