Can you tell when someone is submissive if they haven’t told you?

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Can you tell when someone is submissive if they haven’t told you?

I don’t really do much speculating about the potential submissiveness of strangers, unless you count Love Island contestants or whatever.

So while I do develop opinions while observing people, I don’t have sadomasochistic x-ray vision. I’ve never really been invested in my ability to scan for sluts… I find it’s easier to just invite them to confess their sins, and let them do the work of revelation.