Questions and Answers

Sorry if this has been asked before, I don’t get on here often. But…

…what are your thoughts on people who call themselves “alpha doms”?

(submitted by: @Anonymous)

I don’t have much interaction with all of that, so I don’t have any concrete statements to make. But given my general impression of people who are big fans of socio-sexual hierarchies…

  • Eager erections and anger issues can make life complicated for anyone. And everyone.
  • People who actually are a thing will seldom insist that they’re a thing. They don’t need to. It’s their normal, and rarely remarkable.
  • Some doms fetishize masculinity. Some doms fetishize femininity. Both want to take over that random, tangled collection of half-considered, half-executed decisions you call a life, but they will view every situation through very different lenses. Choose your lens carefully.