I have a gf who is subtly self harming, pinching, bruising herself, pulling her hair out. I know the reasons but i don’t know how to support her as a dom to stop this behavior. Do i be strict and forcefully stop these behaviors or what? Ps she does see a counselor already
(submitted by: Anonymous)
The main thing is to row with her therapist, not against them… let them set the broad agenda, and mold your influence to support that. Don’t try to make grand gestures or “fix” her… use discipline to give her a foundation for her own fixing.