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hello! I had a question that might be kind of stupid, but I thought…

hello! I had a question that might be kind of stupid, but I thought you might know. ive read stories and what-not of clubs and places where everyone there is involved with bdsm or some sort. do you know if places like this really exist?

like I said, it’s kind of dumb, you might not know, it also might not have made sense. if so no worries, thanks anyways, have a great day sir!

(submitted by: Anonymous)

Um, yeah, they definitely exist. They’re not as glossy and immaculately lit as you imagine, and few of them are the orgiastic free-for-alls that you know from movies. They’re mostly a bunch of friendly, garrulous people who like having coffee, having a chat, testing out a new custom flogger on everyone’s girlfriend, and then heading out for drinks.

It’s never been my scene, but some people swear by it. Check out a metropolitan area near you for groups and establishments. And if you’re willing to stick to mostly coffee and chat, you can find groups in smaller towns, too.