I would really love to approach you, but I’m quite worried I wouldn’t mesh well with the other girls and knowing you’re a package deal, I’m wondering if it would be worth approaching or just continuing the already long search to find a man like yourself. (They seem like lovely girls, I just feel as if I’m very different to them).
Inflexibility is a problem. Entitlement is too. Different isn’t.
With that said, my rule of thumb is that if not-approaching feels like an option —if you’d rather suffer through an endless search than risk the agony of my indifference— then you might not be ready. ‘Cause as scary as my disinterest might seem, I assure you, your pride is the least of the things I’ll take from you.
Ultimately, “meshing” is about your priorities. And knowing I’m yours.