you and a lot of blogs like you say you love dumb girls, but that has not been my experience in real life. i forget stuff constantly, like mid sentence even. i get lost easily, reading is difficult, i forget things, and and get like super duper flustered trying to pick out stuff like what to eat and stuff. every guy i’ve dated eventually breaks up with me because its’ super annoying. are yall telling the truth about liking girls like me and i should just keep trying, or is love just not for me?
(submitted by: Anonymous)
Four things:
- I’m tempted to add this to the FAQs, but it doesn’t come up as a frequent question so much as a common assumption. So to be clear: I’m into above-average girl-brains. Significantly above, when possible. With an emphasis on curiosity, language skills, and rudimentary competence as a short-term steward of my property. As used on this blog, “dumb” includes doctors and lawyers and scientists and engineers… such girls aren’t conventionally dumb. Their stupidity is entirely relative.
- I believe you when you describe your cognitive difficulties. But I also believe that they are magnified in your mirror… they’re clearly making you relentlessly self-conscious, and steering you toward despair. Don’t give up on yourself, kid… there’s probably more to you than you can see.
- But y’know what? Someone out there can see it. They may not be easy to find, and you may spend an inordinate amount of time frog-kissing your way through the Tinder swamp, but I’m confident they exist. Give them a chance to find you, and then find you charming.
- Because love is for everyone. And don’t you fucking forget it.