turns out my boyfriend has a wife and kids??? while fucking me he just started complaining about how much he hates them, and loves how low maintenance i am. i feel bad, but also really turned on? should i stop seeing him or something? i am very confused
(submitted by: Anonymous)
So… he told you about his family… while fucking you? Wow.
First, anyone who hates the woman he picked and the children he created —as opposed to simply being unhappy with or unfulfilled by them— is probably some sort of asshole. “Hate” is a big thing, and isn’t normally applied to our nearest and dearest.
(Adult humans hate that which seeks to destroy them, not that which stands in the way of having a good time.)
Second, I know his completely irrational and shitty attitude is hot to you —that sort of self-indulgent emotional immaturity can be a turn-on to the right kind of girl at the right time in her life— but it’s a thrill you should sample quickly before getting off the ride. ‘Cause he will not hesitate to tie you to the tracks next to them and roll right over you the minute he decides you’re done.
Third, I promise you, that’s not the only thing he’s kept from you. And I think you’ll find chlamydia isn’t nearly as sexy as infidelity.