I’m a (gay) dominant who sometimes looks over your page for ideas. I own a lovely, sweet boy. I love to pamper him, but he seems to forget his place too often, and acts out. How would you suggest going about becoming harsher/stricter with him, so subtly he doesn’t even realize it’s happening? Discipline such as writing lines, spankings, ruined o’s, so on… just don’t seem to have the long term effect that we need. I want him in the eager-to-please mindset of one of your girls.
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The “eager-to-please” mindset of my girls comes from their vivid understanding of just how fortunate each of them are to be a part of my world… how lucky they are to have finally discovered a meaning in and purpose for their lives. They feel blessed to experience the fulfillment of a lifetime’s dreams.
If you want that kind of devotion from your boy, you need to make him feel what the girls feel. Don’t just be sexy, harsh, and controlling… be wise. Let him see you thinking objectively about the world around you. Show him nuance and self-restraint. Live your life thoughtfully. It’s easy to make someone love you… give him someone he can’t help but respect.
If you want to be his god, become the answer to his prayers.