(submitted by: @Anonymous)
I have a question about aftercare. My Dom and I are getting into more “aggressive” kinks and we are both super excited, but apprehensive because we don’t know what to do after. I don’t know if you have any suggestions, but anything would be helpful. Thanks!
Aftercare is going to depend on the styles of the people involved and the particulars of their kinks. But it should basically boil down to him getting a status update from you, tending to any problems that surface, and then engaging with you in whatever way reassures you that you’re human and he knows it.