Questions and Answers female teenager looking disgusted while watching

Were you ever disgusted by the things that turn you on?

I’m kinda having that problem right now. If you did…how did you work through it?

(submitted by: @Anonymous)

Ha! Of course I was. I spent many years in denial, and when I finally decided to indulge my desires, I did it timidly and with countless misgivings. It took 20 years of adulthood for me to actually see what I was, what I could do, and the larger part I had to play in the lives of those who need me.

I worked through it by thinking less about myself and more about other people. I had always been a fair listener, but I often failed to listen deeply… I was too quick to judge and too slow to understand. I had to quit denying their reality before I could finally accept my own.