Have you found there to be a difference between being a Dom in your 30s vs being a Dom in your 40?

(submitted by: @Anonymous)

Sadly, my 40s are now in the past, just like my 30s.

But was there a difference? For me, definitely. Even though I started in my early 20s and was leading a community of kinky people in my 30s, I still hadn’t made peace with everything I was into… and more importantly, I hadn’t made peace with the kind of girls who are into me.

I began figuring things out in my late 30s, but it wasn’t until my mid-40s that I finally accepted that it wasn’t my place to fix every broken thing I stumbled upon, and that sometimes it’s better for everyone if I meet a girl at her level and give her what she wants instead of what the world thinks she needs.