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Is it possible to have both a praise kink and a degradation kink simultaneously?

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Is it possible to have both a praise kink and a degradation kink simultaneously?

Possible? More like “expected”. There are certainly some girls who just want to be worthless pieces of shit, but most want to at least be *daddy’s* piece of shit. The insults hit different when you know he likes you.

They’re usually asymmetric kinks, too. My audience leans toward degradation-with-a-side-of-praise, but there are plenty of girls who are motivated primarily by the petting and encouragement at the end. (Note how many asks I get from people who seem to view aftercare as the main course of the evening, rather than a debrief and digestif.)