Mr. B, some wise words please? im single but i have a long term friend with benefits. i don’t really do casual stuff. so it’s a little bit more than just fwb. but also he’s a dominant. anyway. last time we fucked (four days ago) he made me say my pussy was his, which was hot in the moment and totally new, but then he came in me. more than once. i chalked it up to breeding fantasy stuff based on the dirty talk. walking me home later, after watching tv and relaxing, i mentioned plan b and the pharmacy in the morning. he told me to keep his cum inside me and no plan b and to repeat it back. i did. but of course, i did buy and take it first thing in the morning but… feelings wise? kinda fucked up, right? or not? maybe just sexy talk? im seeing him again tonight and im not sure how to act?
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To most people, his behavior was problematic from the start, and escalated rapidly from there. He surprised you with a totally new assertion of ownership, then he ejaculated in you, then he tried to manipulate you into making a bad decision for your health and finances. Three strikes, dude.
But let’s put aside most people. Let’s assume you’re a big girl and can decide to be with a creep if you so desire.
Even then, things look pretty bleak. If you’re going to let a man push or penetrate your boundaries, if you’re going to put up with the unconscionable for your own particular reasons, then you should damned well expect to know that he’s aware of what he’s done, that he understands its significance, that he has thought through the consequences, and that you know his heart. I see no indication that any of that is true.
Sadly, even by the standards of horrible men, your FWB seems like a giant asshole. An asshole who is just getting started.