How do I put myself out there to meet people like you & make…

How do I put myself out there to meet people like you & make the stuff I get off to in my room become my real life?

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(submitted by: Anonymous)

The first thing you do is make damned sure that real life is what you actually want. A good fantasy can excite and distract and even satisfy, yet it goes away the instant you’re done… if “getting off” is all you’re after, then it’s best you keep your hand in your panties and forget about everything else. What happens in your bedroom is simple… what happens outside it is dramatically more complicated.

So meeting “people like [me]” —whatever that means— should be about a lot more than an orgasm. (It would have to be, in fact, since People Like Me seldom let People Like You do Things Like That.) I make girls jump through hoops and prove their devotion over and over because it shouldn’t be easy to end up in the kind of predicament I represent. I’m not just a need… I’m a calling.

But with all that said… introduce yourself. Be attractive. (If possible.) Be interesting. (A challenge!) And when the opportunity presents itself, demonstrate that words like “anything” and “forever” truly mean something to you.

And remember that it’s going to hurt.

Because it must.