Have you ever been in love? If so, when youre in love with someone do you truly believe the things that are written on your blog apply to them?

Is there a line between someone you kink with and someone youre in love with?

…what?

The last time I wasn’t in love was… 1984? Maybe ‘83? Forty years, let’s put it that way. The last time I wasn’t in at least one formal relationship, it was 1992. I’ve been actively in love with individual people longer than half my audience has been alive.

RE: “…the things that are written on your blog…”

…are numerous, spanning a decade of evolving thought and feeling, and written for or about an ever-changing cast of characters. No, not every post applies to any particular individual.

But does the general spirit of the blog apply to those I love?

Oh my yes.

To them, more than anyone else.

RE: “Is there a line…”

I’m not sure what the purpose of such a line would be.

To own a girl, you have to understand her. And the more you understand her, the more you’ll grow to love her. The more you love her, the easier it is to hurt her. The easier it is to hurt her, the more owned she feels. It keeps going like that.