I’ve got an account, but I only sign in once a year or so. Every conversation on Fetlife gives me deja vu… I’ve done my time in those interpersonal trenches, and I can’t take one more round of “what does it mean to be submissive?” or “what makes a true dom?”
(I can give you the answers really quickly: “Submissive means busting your ass to make my life better,” and “Anyone using words like ‘true’ to describe himself ain’t anything of the sort.” See, look at all the time I just saved you.)
With that said, if you’re aware of a deeply buried Fetlife enclave of reasonable people who won’t bore me to death, let me know. There are times I enjoy being proven wrong.