Regarding break and build: SGG, are you talking about someone breaking someone down in play or at large? They are clearly different animals. The latter is dangerous and a sign of a twue-dommy (who probably still lives with Mommy). Anyone with an ounce of intelligence and/or skill can build someone up (so they can reach their potential) without breaking them down first. Building up is building up, period. In play, it ‘might’ be acceptable, if it is mutually agreed upon. SGG, thoughts?

subgirlygirl:

I’m not sure what this is regarding, but here’s my view on the whole ‘break her down before I build her up again’ phenomenon:

1) It was created by men who lack the finesse to inspire submission. (You might recognize them by their ‘Take it, slut!’ snarl.)

2) Most (self-proclaimed) dominant men who tout this practice do not, in my opinion, have the education, experience, and/or skill set to safely take another person through the drive-thru of an Arby’s much less the murky depths of the human psyche. 

In fairness, is it technically possible for anyone to safely go through an Arby’s drive-thru? Between the permanent cloud of aerosolized beef grease and the thin, omnipresent layer of Horsey Sauce on every surface, it’s like an obstacle course for the human immune system.