Someone asked (paraphrased for anonymity):
If a whore accepts she’s broken and harnesses her “broken-ness” to bring immense happiness and satisfaction to her man –and consequently herself– does that essentially “un-break” her?“
Perhaps. There are plenty of broken-but-functioning people in the world, and they seem to get that way by finding a groove in life that suits their limitations… your relationship with your dom could certainly provide that. But as with any crutch, if someone kicks it away when you’re still hobbled, you’re simply going to fall down; learning to work around your damage –and even use it to your benefit– isn’t exactly the same thing as healing.
But then, It’s up to you to decide if the difference is worth the effort. Your happiness is yours to define.