Is a relationship between a 19 year old (me) and a guy in his 30s wrong?
Is it wrong, by default? Of course not. You’re a kid from my perspective, but so is he… objectively, you’re both adults. With that said, it could definitely go wrong, if you’re not careful… the pitfalls are many. You’re at different stages of life, his personal development —while not as frenetic as your own— is still steaming ahead at a good clip, you probably have an at best tenuous grasp on your own desires and motivations, and so on.… Read the rest “Is a relationship between a 19 year old (me) and a guy in his 30s wrong?”