Can you tell when someone is submissive if they haven’t told you?

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Can you tell when someone is submissive if they haven’t told you?

I don’t really do much speculating about the potential submissiveness of strangers, unless you count Love Island contestants or whatever.

So while I do develop opinions while observing people, I don’t have sadomasochistic x-ray vision.… Read the rest “Can you tell when someone is submissive if they haven’t told you?”

I’m curious. How old is the youngest person that you fool around with currently?

I don’t know about “fool around”; the youngest person of interest is twenty, but she’s a sweet little mess, so my “fooling around” with her mainly amounts to “stop letting boys push you around,” “quit wasting money,” and “eat something other than candy”.… Read the rest “I’m curious. How old is the youngest person that you fool around with currently?”

Is your sadism loud and angry or calm and cold?

I only get loud and angry when someone’s doing something self-destructive, and then it’s a scolding, corrective anger, not blind rage. I’m actually really bad at maintaining a head of steam… outside of extreme circumstances, my anger subsides quickly. In reality, I’m almost always calm.… Read the rest “Is your sadism loud and angry or calm and cold?”

What would you say if I came off anon and told you I’ve been following your blog for years and I think I’m in love with you?

I’d say what I say to every girl whose heart comes to embrace my words as scripture: welcome to the first step down a long road. The way is crowded, the journey will strip you of your pride, and you will lose yourself long before you reach the end.… Read the rest “What would you say if I came off anon and told you I’ve been following your blog for years and I think I’m in love with you?”

Why don’t you like 18 year olds as much as 20 year olds. They’re basically the same thing

…said no 20 year old, ever.

The younger you are, the bigger the delta between who you are today and who you’ll be tomorrow… that means your behavior is less consistent (problematic for me) and the impact of my influence is dramatically more significant (problematic for you).… Read the rest “Why don’t you like 18 year olds as much as 20 year olds. They’re basically the same thing”