My Dom likes being called Daddy but I’m struggling with seeing the term as…

My Dom likes being called Daddy but I’m struggling with seeing the term as sexual or equivalent, which in turn makes me uncomfortable calling him so. I don’t want to upset him by calling him a different word. How can I fix this on my part?

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The Time Traveller’s Total Recall of the Spotless Mind

This is it. I’m finally here. It’s been such a long journey, I almost forgot it had an end.

I’m watching from the shadows as you eagerly drop to your knees in front of a man twice your age. I’ve been told this is far from the first time, but for my purposes, that’s irrelevant.… Read the rest “The Time Traveller’s Total Recall of the Spotless Mind”

Is it true that most subs are abuse victims? I’ve seen a lot of…

Is it true that most subs are abuse victims? I’ve seen a lot of the traditional stereotype of “sub develops daddy kink stemming from childhood trauma” and I was curious how much weight that claim holds.

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Yes, a lot of subs are sexual abuse victims, because a lot of girls in general are victims of sexual abuse.… Read the rest “Is it true that most subs are abuse victims? I’ve seen a lot of…”

It irks me when D/s blogs on here glorify and romanticise the 1950s~ as…

It irks me when D/s blogs on here glorify and romanticise the 1950s~ as the kind of ‘golden era’ of marriages – back then, women didn’t consent to submission, there were no formal written agreements. Women were EXPECTED to be submissive in marriage – shouldn’t submission in a relationship be a free and conscious choice?

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thoughts on a non-binary person who loves this blog?

thoughts on a non-binary person who loves this blog?

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My thoughts are that I’m glad you’re getting so much from it!

I’m an old, white, straight American cisguy, so there’s much I don’t “get”, but I’m always aware the world is a bigger, more complex place than I can truly envision, and if my weird, incredibly specific turns of thought and phrase resonate with you, I don’t give a fuck how much you confuse me.… Read the rest “thoughts on a non-binary person who loves this blog?”

sublunaryorchid:

hey? Don’t message me trying to flirt if you literally have “won’t buy content.” or similar in your bio. Pay for your porn. Also fuck you 🫶🏻

I love the implication, that some poor, worn-down fucker is just deluged with requests for money every time he talks to someone around here.… Read the rest “”