ZZ Top had spent years as a band of hard-rocking old farts specializing in low-brow songs for horny teenaged boys, but they reached the pinnacle of their success via a pop-inflected song, a hot car, and a trio of girls head-bobbing and hip-twitching their way through one of the most watched music videos of the ‘80s.… Read the rest “Dusty Hill (1949-2021)”
… Read the rest “About a month ago, a man I’d been in a sort of D/s relationship with for 3 months raped me…”I didn’t realize until after the assault, but he’d been really emotionally abusive and disrespectful of my consent throughout the entire relationship.
But I had been convinced our dynamic was good. I feel like I’m incapable of discerning gold from shit right now.
[TRIGGER WARNING: Don’t look now, but methinks Satan is already behind thee.]
“Oh, stop those stupid tears, Jeanette! Don’t you realize how fuckin’ lucky you are?
“So I fucked you. So what? You should thank me! That’s right, thank me! Look in a goddamned mirror, little girl; it’s not like there’s a long line of men, gonna wait around for a chance to get their hands on a disgusting thing like you!… Read the rest “Moving In”
And I am starting to believe they may actually be. I mean how can a person want to be ordered about sexually and still believe that women are equal to men. I don’t know, I wanted to hear another person’s opinion on the matter and see if I was going crazy
You aren’t a women; you’re an individual, not a collective.… Read the rest “I am a female sub and a feminist but I see a lot of blogs that make these two parts of me seem mutually exclusive…”
A week into me agreeing to not cum for a month, I accidentally came once but I never told him and now a month’s gone by and he’s super proud of me but I know I don’t deserve it😖😖😖 I want to come clean but I’m scared and he’s so happy 🙁
You know, genuine contrition can be pleasing in its own way, particularly when it’s volunteered.… Read the rest “I recently got into a relationship with a guy who’s into orgasm denial…”
I’m exclusively interested in the long-term, but I can’t speak for kink Tumblr in general… I occupy a very specific corner of it and seldom venture beyond my borders. Additionally, my perspective is further skewed because a lot of people turn to me for sanity-checks, so I hear more of the horror stories than the tales of blissful success.… Read the rest “Is BDSM tumblr a short term or long term relationship site? Is it a lust or love game? My former students are on this hellsite and I have heard of only heartbreak stories.”
… Read the rest “Honest question. I know someone who calls themself a dominant. He’s extremely sadistic and that’s what I’m attracted to…”…but I’m smart enough to know when I’m being manipulated and I pick up hints and get bad vibes. I’m attached to him and every time I leave him he always talks me into coming back. He promises it’ll get better once I’m “trained” but for training he wants things that I’m not comfortable with at all and things that could get me in trouble.
… Read the rest “”Sometimes I wonder what my younger self would say to the person I am now. That younger self, so self assured and prideful, feministic, intelligent and independent, going to mass every Sunday like the good Catholic girl she was.
I have email addresses older than you, dummy.
Heck I don’t even like my partner having to swallow my juices. But I always felt shamed because I don’t do it. Feel like maybe I am not as proper kinky as kink society deems it.
As someone who puts worse things than semen down girls’ throats, I would obviously be the wrong guy for you.… Read the rest “I don’t swallow nor do I like the taste of it…”
