I went to hug a girl and she grabbed my hand and shook it. what does it mean??

It means she doesn’t want to hug you. And until she trusts you enough to tell you more, that’s all you need to know.

As far as I’m concerned, automatic hugging has always been part stupid, part sleazy. Seinfeld told us to “get off the ‘kiss hello’ program” almost 30 years ago, and I thiink it’s time the obligatory hug followed it into the dustbin of history. … Read the rest “I went to hug a girl and she grabbed my hand and shook it. what does it mean??”

what do I do if my girl cheats on me with a famous guy and justifies it by saying that it was a “once-in-a-lifetime opportunity” and anyone would’ve done it?

I dunno… see, it’s all a matter of your dignity. And it’s 2021; you could be talking about some dipshit like Logan Paul.

If by “famous” you mean your girl tripped and fell on Alexander Skarsgard’s dick, your only question should be whether or not she stuck the landing.… Read the rest “what do I do if my girl cheats on me with a famous guy and justifies it by saying that it was a “once-in-a-lifetime opportunity” and anyone would’ve done it?”

I’m a little younger than Matthew Perry and a little older than Ben Affleck —and am uglier and infinitely poorer than both— and yet I have never felt the need to beg nineteen year olds to talk to me. Seriously, guys… if I had your resources, I’d literally be running a Hot Bitch Commune right now.… Read the rest “”

How can I learn to be expressive with my emotions?

That’s kind of a huge topic, but one piece of it is “learn to speak with intent”.

I know it’s cool to tell The Olds that communicating in more than ironic in-crowd gibberish and meme-speak is unnecessary, and if you have nothing particular or intimate to convey, that’s probably true.… Read the rest “How can I learn to be expressive with my emotions?”

Unfortunately, my boyfriend is upset because I never have orgasms during sex…

I’m 20 and I’ve only had 1 guy before him. I never had an orgasm with anyone and I don’t know why. I feel like he’s blaming me for it.

Barring some unusual malady or a bad interaction between your libido and your meds, the most likely reason you’re not cumming is that neither of you know what you’re doing.… Read the rest “Unfortunately, my boyfriend is upset because I never have orgasms during sex…”

Ally Sheedy

It feels unfair that I never give Ally Sheedy credit for being a part of many of the movies I loved as a kid. Perhaps it’s because she was seldom the centerpiece in a cast, or perhaps because I wouldn’t start appreciating her look for another ten years… whatever the case, I seldom think about her, and when I do, it’s solely related to The Breakfast Club.… Read the rest “Ally Sheedy”