You do understand though that no matter how consensual, this kind of fetish could…

You do understand though that no matter how consensual, this kind of fetish could do horrible and lasting psychological damage to the virgin sub? Nobody should get off to that.

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Madam, my generation pioneered using a four hour block of Cold Case Files repeats on A&E as porn… twenty years ago, I could almost get hard hearing Bill Kurtis intone “the body.”… Read the rest “You do understand though that no matter how consensual, this kind of fetish could…”

My fiancé just told me he’s I am not. And he knows this. He…

My fiancé just told me he’s poly.. I am not. And he knows this. He says that he can repress these feelings because he doesn’t want to lose me. He’d rather have me than have multiple partners. Most would say that’s flattering, but to me I hate I can’t fulfill this part of my doms life.

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Will you ever want a monogamous relationship? Someone who you will want to be…

Will you ever want a monogamous relationship? Someone who you will want to be with forever and give all your love to?

No disrespect at all, just curious and feel free to not respond if it’s too personal.

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I’ve been monogamous for many years at a time.… Read the rest “Will you ever want a monogamous relationship? Someone who you will want to be…”

What is something that you have tried and liked but didn’t think you would…

What is something that you have tried and liked but didn’t think you would like one bit?

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A lot of things, really. I’m a fairly skeptical person, and assume I’m going to dislike foreign things.

But a big one that springs to mind?… Read the rest “What is something that you have tried and liked but didn’t think you would…”

How is it possible to replicate that sense of connection and/or pride in your…

How is it possible to replicate that sense of connection and/or pride in your submissive over a long distance relationship?

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Do you mean a permanently long distance relationship? Some great romances have lived entirely within the ink scribbled across the pages of love letters, so it’s probably possible.… Read the rest “How is it possible to replicate that sense of connection and/or pride in your…”

what would you do if you were dating someone who wasn’t into your kinks?…

what would you do if you were dating someone who wasn’t into your kinks? Or many kinks at all

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I wouldn’t.

There is nothing about a vanilla relationship that I covet, and nothing about a vanilla girl that appeals to me beyond her physical form.… Read the rest “what would you do if you were dating someone who wasn’t into your kinks?…”

hello um I don’t exactly know who to ask but you seem to be…

hello um I don’t exactly know who to ask but you seem to be into the same things as me and my lover and are very sensible on the topic, so he’s lately been suggesting things that have begun to scare me, I don’t know how to explain to him that it’s too far and I’m worried he might be mad at me, any advice on how to go about this?

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