… Read the rest “My long-term partner is not a feminist in his actions…”…and it starts bothering me more and more lately. He usually listens to my personal stories and supports me, but he doesn’t see how women’s problems are different from men’s. I try discussing it with him, but he is verbally much stronger and experienced than I am.
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Thank you, and thanks to everyone who offered their condolences. I’ve grown old myself without losing many of my elders along the way, but time is tight, and these occasions will soon seem common.
I’m privileged to only now grow familiar with grief.
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Many people find me quite nice… even kind.
Perhaps your broken parts understand me better than the rest of you.
Wouldn’t be the first time.
… Read the rest “What was turning 30 like for you?”I never thought of myself as the sort of person who would feel self conscious about aging, but I continue to surprise myself. I feel like three kids in a trenchcoat pretending to be an adult. I feel unprepared and unsexy.
As a true child of the internet age, her influence is deep rather than wide. Jenna Jameson was more of a household name at her DVD-powered peak, while Hugh Hefner and —I’m being generous here— Larry Flynt kept entire generations buying magazines and hiring attorneys.… Read the rest “Sasha Grey has been an incredible influence, don’t you think?”
Melty like chocolate left forgotten on the dash of the car in the middle of summer while two people argue about their future and everything it will never be, melty like an icicle that you’ve been watching for hours through the bedroom window while you cry under the covers and wonder when he’ll come home, or melty like a marshmallow Peep in a microwave… a sickly sweet, puffy thing that no one really likes but everyone eventually consumes?… Read the rest “Your words make me melty”
Nah, but then, I don’t have many “first times” to my credit. When I was young I was exclusively into older chicks, and while that’s flipped around today, I generally prefer girls who’ve done enough to know what they can take.… Read the rest “Have you ever eaten a girl out for the first time? how did she react?”
… Read the rest “i feel like i keep annoying my dom…”i always ask him if there is anything i can do for him as i love being useful and taking tasks off his hands. but he seems to get irritated because he never has anything for me to do. i just want to please him please help.
When I was a kid and into older chicks, absolutely… I did so on several occasions. Sexually frustrated wives with stupid, inhibited, or incarcerated husbands were kinda my thing, many decades ago.
But now? Nah. I’m not interested in the bits and pieces of a girl… I want to own the whole thing.
I’m exclusively interested in the long-term, but I can’t speak for kink Tumblr in general… I occupy a very specific corner of it and seldom venture beyond my borders. Additionally, my perspective is further skewed because a lot of people turn to me for sanity-checks, so I hear more of the horror stories than the tales of blissful success.… Read the rest “Is BDSM tumblr a short term or long term relationship site? Is it a lust or love game? My former students are on this hellsite and I have heard of only heartbreak stories.”
