I hate being a young Dom. I feel like it’s so shameful to be so inexperienced.

Cut yourself some slack… if you’re transparent about it, there’s nothing shameful about being young and inexperienced. Where you begin is nothing compared to where you end up.

I was twenty-three when I found an online community of kinky people. I was the youngest person in the group for a while —the others ranged from mid-30s to early 70s— and I remained the youngest guy for several years after that.… Read the rest “I hate being a young Dom. I feel like it’s so shameful to be so inexperienced.”

Would you define what devotion means to you and maybe an example of it? Please? I’ve been struggling with that word…

What it means: Adoration. Reverence. Worship. A readiness to seek your purpose in the priorities of another. A love that transcends the rational.

An example:

“Beside me, on the left hand, appeared an angel in bodily form… In his hands I saw a great golden spear, and at the iron tip there appeared to be a point of fire.Read the rest “Would you define what devotion means to you and maybe an example of it? Please? I’ve been struggling with that word…”

do you have any advice for someone who usually identifies as a brat but wants to try being good?

Well, first, be sure you’re not happier as you are. Some girls just happen to be bratty little pains in the ass, and while they’re not my cup of tea, there are plenty of men out there who get off on remixing the same fait accompli night after night.… Read the rest “do you have any advice for someone who usually identifies as a brat but wants to try being good?”

from @artibud: I want you to tease me and give me jarkoff instructions

youruinedmyfavsong:

jarkoff

“So, Agent Artibud,” said Svetlana, her ruby lips forming shapes far more seductive than the words they ushered into the world. “I’ve received notice from headquarters. Your assignment has arrived at last.”

Agent Artibud blushed deeply, his entirely average and uninteresting penis betraying his excitement; a betrayal both in the sense that his tented desire was unceremoniously revealed, and in the sense that he immediately shot in his pants without so much as a wheeze.… Read the rest “from @artibud: I want you to tease me and give me jarkoff instructions”

Speaking of Keri Russell 😍… Have you watched “The Americans”?

Are you kidding? It’s a show about Soviet sleeper agents, one of whom specializes in seducing women, making them fall in love, and convincing them to make the biggest mistakes of their lives.

I’ve watched every single minute. And unlike many of the prestige shows of the last decade, it didn’t fall apart at the end… The Americans is consistently excellent from start to finish, dramatically increased my respect for Keri Russell as an actor, and turned Matthew Rhys into a new favorite.… Read the rest “Speaking of Keri Russell 😍… Have you watched “The Americans”?”

I know for a fact that one of the reasons why I am what I am is because my father has never told me what to do or scolded me…

…but is it really his fault? Could it just be that there is something wrong with me.


Learn to disentangle the concepts of “origin” and “blame”. When you talk about “fault”, that’s what’s happening… you’re identifying the source of an issue, and then instinctively escalating that identification to an accusation.… Read the rest “I know for a fact that one of the reasons why I am what I am is because my father has never told me what to do or scolded me…”

Will you fuck any girl who asks, or do you have certain standards for it (such as appearance wise)?

If I fucked any girl who asked, my dick would have long ago eroded. Or burst into flames. And I definitely have standards, which both include and transcend appearance. If you want me to fuck you, you’re gonna work for it harder than you’ve worked for most anything in your life.… Read the rest “Will you fuck any girl who asks, or do you have certain standards for it (such as appearance wise)?”

do you mind if girls send you lewd-y/nude-y pictures unsolicited, or do you prefer to ask straight up for them/only want them from certain people, etc etc?

I don’t chase girls, and I don’t ask for nudes… if you want me to see you, it’s up to you to summon all your questionable courage and just send something. When it comes to damaging your pride for the sake of an old man’s fleeting attention, there’s no time like the present.… Read the rest “do you mind if girls send you lewd-y/nude-y pictures unsolicited, or do you prefer to ask straight up for them/only want them from certain people, etc etc?”