Every girl I was involved with from eighteen ‘til my forties was older than me, anywhere from six months to fifteen years. Since then they’ve been younger, by decades. So I’ve seen it from multiple perspectives.
Given how complex and murky I know the reality to be, I can’t say I have strong opinions, but I have some random thoughts.… Read the rest “Do you have any strong opinions on 10+ year age gap relationships?”
… Read the rest “Ye Olde Caption Archive”Being a collection of recently-recovered content that Tumblr doesn’t like:
… Read the rest “What’s your opinion about girls on their period?”They need heating pads and Hershey bars and head pats, and told to get their lazy, anxiety-ridden asses to the gyno if that shit ever becomes a persistent misery. ‘Cause girls are stupid enough to let their uteri fall out before they’ll make a fucking appointment to check for fibroids.
Having just blocked a couple of dumbasses, I thought I’d mention for future reference: y’all can keep your bar-lowering shitbag apologia to yourselves.
The people in an earlier ask weren’t having kinky sex. They were having plain ol’ sex in an unfamiliar position.… Read the rest “Cranky Old Man Shit: Excuses”
Kiddo, why are you terrified he’ll leave you?
Someone assaulted you and then preemptively smeared you to put you on the defensive… that’s Acquaintance Rape 101, and you should be confident your man is smart enough to see that. You should be able to remind him of deviations in your behavior since the assault, and know that he was paying attention.… Read the rest “How can I tell my boyfriend I was raped? The male who raped me told my boyfriend I cheated and I denied anything ever happened, but I want to tell him what really happened, but I’m terrified he will leave me.”
… Read the rest “If dominance doesn’t require violent masculinity, then: How are you defining dominance?”Every definition of dominance I’ve seen is dependent on violent masculinity, implicitly or explicitly. How can someone call themself a submissive if they aren’t at least a little attracted to violence (and by extension masculinity, since masculine virtues all involve capacity for violence cross-culturally)?
Okay, first: yes, of course it’s possible. Clever, thoughtful young men exist, and as the Fox News audience demonstrates, old men are frequently dim-witted fuckwads. Age is a very coarse filter.
But how likely is it? It kind of depends on what you’re including under the umbrella of “the concept”.… Read the rest “This is a serious ask. I’m a woman in my late twenties. I’ve been on tumblr for a while. My question to you… do you think its possible for a younger dom to actually understand the concept? It just seems like a lot of these younger guys take on the role and I’m not sure it comes from a genuine place. Porn has certainly hasn’t had a very positive effect on young men, too. Theres no context behind some of the more hardcore stuff out there. I’m just a little put off by what I’m seeing. plz help.”
Oh, I’m sure there are countless things wrong with you, dear, but your predilection for old man cock isn’t among them.
It’s hard being a good girl… be glad one aspect of it comes so naturally to you.
This was asked a few days ago, so I’m not sure. But chances are:
