i love my boyfriend so much, and he is so gentle and kind with…

i love my boyfriend so much, and he is so gentle and kind with me. but that’s kind of the problem. i long to be manipulated. i want him to get into my head and convince me he’s the only one who wants me, i want him to drain me of my life and goals so i cling to him with everything i have.

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I have a gf who is subtly self harming, pinching, bruising herself, pulling her…

I have a gf who is subtly self harming, pinching, bruising herself, pulling her hair out. I know the reasons but i don’t know how to support her as a dom to stop this behavior. Do i be strict and forcefully stop these behaviors or what?

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I’m 21, getting out of college, I have my whole life ahead of me but…

…I just. I don’t see the point in living it. Seems like everyone has already done everything I dream of doing, and better, I don’t even wanna try to reach their level cause I know I won’t. Sorry to dump this on you, I just can’t tell this to anyone else because they’d be alarmed and I don’t know I already feel like a failure, if I tell anyone that, they’ll see me as a failure too

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First things first: you’re depressed as fuck.… Read the rest “I’m 21, getting out of college, I have my whole life ahead of me but…”

I think men and women should have hair. I think vulvas look weird without hair…

…and I like the padding. I think all these guys like what they always see on porn just because they’re used to seeing it on porn, and I think their biggest sexual argument is with oral, but not everyone gives a crap about oral.

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Heey I just bought a copy of all the Hitchhiker’s Guide books!

Now that I know it’s one of your favorites I’ll pass it to the top of my readings c:

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I hope the books hold up for you. I worry that Adams’ work was so influential that it’s gonna be a little like watching Animal House after you’ve been raised on a diet of Porky’s, Revenge of the Nerds, and Fraternity Vacation… you can see that the original is objectively of higher quality, but all the delight has been drained from it by its derivatives.… Read the rest “Heey I just bought a copy of all the Hitchhiker’s Guide books!”

My girl wants me to hit her but I don’t want to actually harm her.

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That’s understandable. So hit her carefully, in carefully chosen places. Do a little research. Take your time. If you’re thoughtful and patient and truly give a shit about doing no harm, you’ll be okay.

As for the psychological side of this: there are girls exactly like her in martial arts classes all around us, getting kicked and smacked and thrown dozens of times some days, and the world has thus far soldiered on despite the bruising, bleeding, and occasional cracking of their Delicate Feminine Bodies.… Read the rest “My girl wants me to hit her but I don’t want to actually harm her.”

2021 Rewind: Music

So I don’t use Spotify, and thus don’t have any handy Wrapped images to post. (Dear Apple Music: the annual Replay playlists are fine, but you really need to work on a social-sharing component for them.) With that said, I can basically tell you what I listened to this year.… Read the rest “”