Tag: advice

PLEASE HELP ME

I’m a former “broken girl” and then I met a guy and he’s the sweetest most pure person I’ve ever known and we’ve been dating for 3 years now and I love him but he’s very “vanilla” sexually and I’m aching for some of my old life back.

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I have enjoyed your blog for a while and wondered if I may get your advice on a dilemma I’m having.

A guy I’ve been chatting to for quite a while has asked me to be his pet slave. I have told him my limits and boundaries, and he says slaves don’t get limits.… Read the rest “I have enjoyed your blog for a while and wondered if I may get…”

Hi✨ I would like to ask your opinion on something. My dom and I have been together for year and a half, most of our relationship has been online cuz we are from different cities and he has been dealing with a family situation.… Read the rest “Hi I would like to ask your opinion on something. My dom and I…”

You talk about your coworker’s husbands hating you. I’m taking this as you being generally charming and attractive (or maybe you got incredibly lucky and chanced upon a den of very good girls). Do you have any advice for being like that?

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turned 30 recently. i seem to have developed a bit of a belly despite leading a very active lifestyle. is this just what happens??? am i really turning into a old hag already?????? do i have to settle down and start a family or something????

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I’m a (gay) dominant who sometimes looks over your page for ideas. I own a lovely, sweet boy. I love to pamper him, but he seems to forget his place too often, and acts out. How would you suggest going about becoming harsher/stricter with him, so subtly he doesn’t even realize it’s happening?

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Do you have any advice for someone who’s about to try being free use for the first time?

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I’m always confused by what Tumblr people mean by “free use”. Do you mean “my husband’s friends are coming over and they’ve all got a pass to use me like a crusty sock”, or “when my boyfriend likes what he sees, he yanks down my leggings and plows me without a word”?… Read the rest “Do you have any advice for someone who’s about to try being free use…”

i broke up with my boyfriend a while back. he doesn’t seem to have agreed with it though, he tells me to come over to cook him dinner all the time. and i do it! a lot! i feel pathetic… but also like i can’t let the guy starve you know?… Read the rest “i broke up with my boyfriend a while back. he doesn’t seem to have…”

I stumbled across your blog and it fascinated me in some way, even though it’s not the content of your blog, but how you see people.

People scare me, I don’t see through them. I don’t understand what motivates them and what role I play in their life, game or whatever.

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So, I’m currently in the process of cautiously reconnecting with an ex (if such a thing can ever actually be done cautiously.)

This is somebody who always had a gift for speaking directly to the broken bits of me, especially the parts I didn’t want to admit were cracked.

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