Tag: advice

Hello Mr Bedtime, I’m 6’4″, 130lbs with 34B boobs and pink hair. I also have a neurological condition that makes me really forgetful. It means I’m super easy to gaslight which is thrilling, but it’s getting worse. I can’t really trust my brain that much which scares me because I’m becoming more dependant on my Doms to remember things for me.

what are your thoughts on period sex..? i know some ppl are into it but ik some ppl find it revolting. my ex never wanted to touch me when i got mine… said it wouldn’t be worth ruining our towels.

you seem really smart and knowledgeable so i feel like i’d trust you answering more than my own research ahaha… i feel like i did something wrong with my ex.

I made a big mistake. I feel horrible. Everyone thinks I’m an irresponsible idiot. It was an accident. I’m having a hard time forgiving myself let alone dealing with all the judgment. How do I deal with this with this with integrity?

Do you ever feel guilty for kinks you have? I’m a guy and I’ve got misogyny kinks, rape kinks, stuff like that and sometimes it makes me feel…pretty icky.

I know that it’s okay to find things hot in kink, but not real life, and I know it’s often the case that people like things because they’re morally wrong.

I’ve known my partner for very long and she likes pushing her own boundaries. But sometimes I feel like sometimes she doesn’t really wants what she’s asking me to do for her. I’ve stopped because I feel like I’m abusing her more than I’m giving her pleasure, but I still love her very much.

Mr. B, some wise words please? im single but i have a long term friend with benefits. i don’t really do casual stuff. so it’s a little bit more than just fwb. but also he’s a dominant. anyway. last time we fucked (four days ago) he made me say my pussy was his, which was hot in the moment and totally new, but then he came in me.

my daddy is into rape play and i’ve never done it but i’m definitely open to it. but he wants to wake me up by him aggressively fucking me, i’m fine with it and all but since i have no knowledge on the kink..

My Dom likes being called Daddy but I’m struggling with seeing the term as sexual or equivalent, which in turn makes me uncomfortable calling him so. I don’t want to upset him by calling him a different word. How can I fix this on my part?

Is it a red flag if my partner never expresses any boundaries?

Possibly. People have peanut allergies. People have bad circulation. People have migraines. People have bad days. Whether your partner likes it or not, human bodies and human circumstances prescribe boundaries of their own.… Read the rest “Is it a red flag if my partner never expresses any boundaries?”