How do you start a conversation about kinks with someone? Also if someone isn’t comfortable with kinks do you always stick to vanilla things or you can help them warm up to it?
Movies are a good way to go… I fell in love with my first serious girlfriend because within fifteen minutes of meeting me, she was describing the rape scene from the original Last House on the Left.… Read the rest “How do you start a conversation about kinks with someone? Also if someone isn’t…”
… Read the rest “I’m really not sure what I’m asking, maybe if you have any insight on…”I’m really not sure what I’m asking, maybe if you have any insight on why all of a sudden I might need a softer type of aftercare than what I usually ask of my doms? Have you ever had a sexual partner that was into extreme cruelty/hard kinks but needed to just be held in silence after?
Sometimes I wonder if my dom is psychologically abusive. How to tell the difference between a healthy and an abusive bdsm relationship?
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I’ve likely said all this before, but…
I can’t give you a simple answer, but I can give you some questions to ponder.… Read the rest “Sometimes I wonder if my dom is psychologically abusive. How to tell the difference…”
… Read the rest “Hi Mr B, I’m kind of in this weird situation and I didn’t know…”Hi Mr B, I’m kind of in this weird situation and I didn’t know who to ask or what to do, but you always seem to give out the best and most thought out advice. So I wanted to get your thoughts on this and what I should do.
Best life advice to give to 20somethings girls still trying to figure it all out?
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Two thoughts spring to mind.
During rape play or cnc, is it normal to eat a girl out? Like how do you incorporate eating a girl out into cnc?
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Aim higher than normality.
Make her feel ashamed. Make her feel disgusting. Make her feel exposed.… Read the rest “During rape play or cnc, is it normal to eat a girl out? Like…”
… Read the rest “My husband doesn’t fuck me. We fuck maybe once a year. I’ve communicated about…”My husband doesn’t fuck me. We fuck maybe once a year. I’ve communicated about it but nothing changes, I have such a high drive I really want to be used and treated like a dumb little girl.
What do i do Mr B?
So I’m really getting into a new dd/lg Dom/sub relationship and I just wondered if you have any tips on things to say to tease my Dom ? I really struggle with that. Thanks !! X
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I’m afraid I’m the wrong person to ask… I don’t enjoy being teased.… Read the rest “So I’m really getting into a new dd/lg Dom/sub relationship and I just wondered…”
… Read the rest “hii im relatively new to engaging w doms on Tumblr/other platforms and while i…”hii im relatively new to engaging w doms on Tumblr/other platforms and while i have established some core boundries im not sure when i should just listen to my dom and when i should go with my gut.
also the dom im currently interacting with is in a different country which makes it tougher for me to follow through on the instructions?
… Read the rest “My fiancé just told me he’s I am not. And he knows this. He…”My fiancé just told me he’s poly.. I am not. And he knows this. He says that he can repress these feelings because he doesn’t want to lose me. He’d rather have me than have multiple partners. Most would say that’s flattering, but to me I hate I can’t fulfill this part of my doms life.
