Tag: advice

My daddy is away for 10 days and I want to use this time to train my ass for him. He’s really into anal but i’ve been too tight for us to do it. I’m doing well so far, but I’m really bad at keeping secrets.

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Any advice?

My girl and I, we were doing some rape play. It seemed like everything was going well, until she blurted out the safe word mid moan. Naturally, everything came to a halt and I immediately asked what was wrong and if I can help.

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how do you personally go about establishing a safe word? I’m a sub pretty new to kink, and I’ve been sleeping with a more experienced dom for a little while and we don’t have a safe word. At first I didn’t really think about it but now looking back I realize we’ve done plenty of stuff that requires a safe word (cnc, knifeplay, impact play, ect), and now I’m debating whether to establish one now and keep going, or just leave entirely because he never even thought to bring it up either.

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Do you have any suggestions for what kinds of things a girl should say in bed? I love to be talked to but I never know what to say back that doesn’t sound… dumb lol

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Just speak your truth, however unintelligible.… Read the rest “Do you have any suggestions for what kinds of things a girl should say…”

I used to be able to cum very quickly and quite often. My Dom wanted me to learn edging though so it’s something we’ve worked on and I’ve gotten pretty good at it. But now he’s disappointed that I can’t cum as quickly as I use to.

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Any advice on how to get my boyfriend in touch with his dominant side without overtly asking for it? I have expressed my desire for his leadership, and he has the tendency to be instructive and assertive, but not authoritative. When I do something he doesn’t like, he will either too gently ask me not to or will internalize his frustration and voice it out in small, passive aggressive ways over an extended period of time.

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I used my safe word with my Dom for something I’m usually fine with. He stopped as he always does but said he was disappointed. How would you suggest dealing with the guilt that follows because I only ever want to please him and I failed

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If you’re dealing with a reasonably conscientious dom, you’ll seldom need to safeword during edgier activities because he’ll know he’s doing something extreme or unfamiliar and will be paying extra attention to your reactions.… Read the rest “I used my safe word with my Dom for something I’m usually fine with.…”

hi mr. bedtime. you remind me of my bf. we’ve been together for five years now, and i’m still pinching myself over it. i love him i love him i love him.

we don’t have a “dom/sub” relationship, but he completely owns me.

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hello um I don’t exactly know who to ask but you seem to be into the same things as me and my lover and are very sensible on the topic, so he’s lately been suggesting things that have begun to scare me, I don’t know how to explain to him that it’s too far and I’m worried he might be mad at me, any advice on how to go about this?

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Hi! I’m seeing a guy and he is a lot more experienced than me, I’m 22 and haven’t had sex yet and I don’t know if I should tell him or not, cause i’m scared of the reaction i might get in both scenarios: if i do and he thinks i’m odd for it, or if i don’t and then when we have sex i’ll probably be too shy, in awe and awkward to function.

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