How can a girl give good head. I figure you’ve gotten enough in your…

How can a girl give good head. I figure you’ve gotten enough in your life that you can give me a pretty good idea.

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Keep your hands at your sides, relax your jaw, find time to breathe, and try not to make a mess that you’ll just have to lick up later.… Read the rest “How can a girl give good head. I figure you’ve gotten enough in your…”

Hiya BSFG Your name shortened down reminds me of The BFG by Roald Dahl.…

Maybe you are secretly a big friendly giant, but I digress I have come to you seeking advice – I’ve had a few long term D/S dynamics my first two were born from tumblr before it’s censorship of all that is fun.

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hi, I think I need your advice. my partner and I have a relationship…

…that has aspects of BDSM. we have agreed around our limits and boundaries and ive never really had any issues. until two days ago when out of no where and with no warning he slapped me across the face and called me a bad girl because I dropped the broccoli he was cooking with dinner.

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What do you recommend new doms to research/practice? I’d love to have your input on it.

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If I had a good answer for this, I’d be selling out Holiday Inn conference halls all around the world.

I essentially cheated. When I was young, I found a group of older, ornery, communicatively sophisticated, and stubbornly open-minded perverts, who basically gave me a hard surface against which I could bounce my many, many bad ideas.… Read the rest “What do you recommend new doms to research/practice? I’d love to have your input on it.”

Does everyone get safe word? My daddy said safe words are for babies and…

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Does everyone get safe word? My daddy said safe words are for babies and I’m a big girl so I don’t get a safe word

I haven’t known many babies —as I find smelly, shrieking things are best avoided— but I am unaware of an initiative to assign them all safewords.… Read the rest “Does everyone get safe word? My daddy said safe words are for babies and…”

I know it’s going to sound kinda dumb, but does a vagina have to…

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I know it’s going to sound kinda dumb, but does a vagina have to be shaved…? In pornos/smut movies they’re always completely shaved and clean, but I was wondering if that even matters… Do guys (or girls for lesbians) really prefer shaved vaginas or pubis ?… Read the rest “I know it’s going to sound kinda dumb, but does a vagina have to…”

I hope I use all the right terminology but I recently turned 18 and…

…I’m pursuing my first dom/sub relationship and he (my potential dom) said we don’t need a safe word because he would never take me that far…I feel uneasy? Am I being overly analytical? I this how it usually works? I’m confused and a little overwhelmed.

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Do you really think there is somebody for everybody?

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The world is vast, kiddo, and overflowing with billions of souls. There’s more than just somebody out there for you… there are probably lots of somebodies.

But unless you want to count on blind luck and proximity to do the work for you, you’ve got to figure out what you really are and what you really want if you ever hope to find them.