…a day, I just don’t know what to do, what has happened with them. I suppose there are ugly sides to being Tumblr friends too
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I know intimately how tough that is, but here’s the thing… you’re not the Self-Destruction Police.… Read the rest “I’ve a Tumblr friend who is suicidal and everytime they go silent for a…”
This is the happiest I’ve ever been emotionally, but physically I’m not satisfied. I feel guilty for breaking up with someone because of that.
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If he were me —and you were thus a certain kind of girl— he’d laugh at you and ask what on earth gave you the idea that your sexual satisfaction is a goal, when it’s clearly just a tool —a lever, fit to move your world— that he can use to crack open your poorly-secured little heart and plunder the meager riches within?… Read the rest “Do you think it’s okay to break up with someone because you aren’t sexually satisfied?”
… Read the rest “Do you think it’s possible to keep BDSM in the bedroom and not as a lifestyle?”I’ve been dating this guy for two years and he’s slowly pushed for me to be completely submissive with everything, with finances and money and he insists that I should cook everyday, even when I have to study or am just too tired.
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…”my bf is doing/asking me to do [crossing a limit, red flag red flag red flag, abuse, stuff they’re not ready for], Am I The Asshole?”
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I know it bores a part of my audience, but I’m rather sanguine about it… I figure lockdowns and existential panic have driven lots of inexperienced people into Trying New Stuff, and they’ve gotta ask questions of someone when Daddy McFuckbuddy’s reach suddenly seems to exceed his grasp.… Read the rest “How do you feel about all the girls in your inbox going…”
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Stop trying to turn it around. Just be their friend.
Gracefully accepting someone’s boundaries is a pretty romantic move, and if there’s any glimmer of possibility between you, it’s a move that will be noticed.
…and wants me to find one of my female friends to play. I’m ok with playing if that’s what he decided but not with one of my friends. What do I do?
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“My Daddy” tells me precious little about the nature of your relationship.… Read the rest “My Daddy decided we’re going to have a threesome…”
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Does your boyfriend deserve to enjoy the awkwardness and discomfort you endure to be pretty for him?
The answer to both questions is the same.
I’m kinda having that problem right now. If you did…how did you work through it?
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Ha! Of course I was. I spent many years in denial, and when I finally decided to indulge my desires, I did it timidly and with countless misgivings.… Read the rest “Were you ever disgusted by the things that turn you on?”
Of course it would be dumb.
But when has that ever stopped you?
