Tag: Anonymous

I moved out of my dad’s house, left my shitty ex, got over my alcohol addiction, stopped hooking up with people idk and I even got myself a job…

…Basically far from broken at this point but I STILL can’t stop coming back to your blog?? You’d think after staying away from all the other shit, this would be the easy part

Sweetie, you’re confused. Living at home, jobless, with a shitty boyfriend while drinking too much and fucking around doesn’t make you broken in the first place, and changing your ways won’t change you back.… Read the rest “I moved out of my dad’s house, left my shitty ex, got over my alcohol addiction, stopped hooking up with people idk and I even got myself a job…”

i told a guy i liked i’m a masochistic sub. ‘so how’s your relationship with your father?’ he asked, smiling…

The rest of the date was disastrous. he mocked me than at the same time he told me to seek a psychiatrist ‘for my own good’ as if my sexuality was a mental disorder to be treated. how to answer these preconceptions people have on kinky people?

… Read the rest “i told a guy i liked i’m a masochistic sub. ‘so how’s your relationship with your father?’ he asked, smiling…”

How do i talk to my self conscious girlfriend about taking her clothes off during sex after 6 months?

How can I help her know it’s important to me? I’m being very patient since I know she’s nervous. For me it makes me feel a little unwanted when she won’t get naked but I do.

This is such a pure, sweet ask —one which gives me hope for the future of men— and all I can think is “how did you end up asking me?… Read the rest “How do i talk to my self conscious girlfriend about taking her clothes off during sex after 6 months?”

is using your safeword with your partner, to see if they would actually stop abusive? or bad?

Is such a use of your safeword bad? No. But I think you might be using it badly.

If you truly think there’s a chance your partner is going to ignore a safeword, do not fuck with him. A safeword will do absolutely nothing to protect you from cruel intentions or indifference… it will only stop someone who already respects your safety and autonomy. … Read the rest “is using your safeword with your partner, to see if they would actually stop abusive? or bad?”