“You Do” – Aimee Mann

You stay the night at his house
With no ride to work
And I’m the one who tells you
He’s another jerk
But you’re the one who can succeed
You’ve only got to prove your need
And you do
You really do

One of the best movies of the ‘90s happened to have one of the best soundtracks, because Paul Thomas Anderson was smart enough to recognize and utilize Aimee Mann’s genius.… Read the rest ““You Do” – Aimee Mann”

“Ain’t So Easy” – David & David

I’m sorry about your eye
I’ll find a way to make amends
it’s only that sometimes
I have to break before I bend

Ain’t So Easy uses brilliantly observant, fucked-up words to compress the breadth of a man’s abuse of a woman —the violence, the stunted demi-apologies, the minimization, the conflation of love and possession, and the steadily escalating threats— into just under five minutes of song, pairing those darkly persuading, persuasive lyrics with an almost disturbingly upbeat ’80s folk-pop sound.… Read the rest ““Ain’t So Easy” – David & David”

“Mother Mother” – Tracy Bonham

I know the blog’s soundtrack is starting to look like a Lilith Fair lineup, but the ‘90s were a very good time for those who enjoyed listening to women howl out their pain.

Intriguingly, at the end of the decade, most of those shattering, disturbing women’s voices were brushed aside by a sixteen year old in braids who was begging to be hit one more time.… Read the rest ““Mother Mother” – Tracy Bonham”