Regarding break and build: SGG, are you talking about someone breaking someone down in play or at large? They are clearly different animals. The latter is dangerous and a sign of a twue-dommy (who probably still lives with Mommy). Anyone with an ounce of intelligence and/or skill can build someone up (so they can reach their potential) without breaking them down first. Building up is building up, period. In play, it ‘might’ be acceptable, if it is mutually agreed upon. SGG, thoughts?

subgirlygirl:

I’m not sure what this is regarding, but here’s my view on the whole ‘break her down before I build her up again’ phenomenon:

1) It was created by men who lack the finesse to inspire submission. (You might recognize them by their ‘Take it, slut!’

Read the rest “Regarding break and build: SGG, are you talking about someone breaking someone down in play or at large? They are clearly different animals. The latter is dangerous and a sign of a twue-dommy (who probably still lives with Mommy). Anyone with an ounce of intelligence and/or skill can build someone up (so they can reach their potential) without breaking them down first. Building up is building up, period. In play, it ‘might’ be acceptable, if it is mutually agreed upon. SGG, thoughts?”