So if you meet a broken girl can you tell that she is one even if she acts like a sweet, shy, simple kind of girl? Like how do girls reveal themselves that way?

I’ve never had to figure that out, because I’ve never had to look for fucked-up girls. They find me, and just… tell me what they are. There’s no need to seek when one is sought.

Or put another way: I’m the clearing in the woods, not the hunter in the blind.… Read the rest “So if you meet a broken girl can you tell that she is one even if she acts like a sweet, shy, simple kind of girl? Like how do girls reveal themselves that way?”

I’m intrigued by your blog in many ways, of course, but something I’ve always wondered is what you’re like outside this? Are you cold & intimidating? Are you really a ‘cranky old man’? Or are you actually really sweet to your family & friends, maybe you have a dog & a nice house & nobody would suspect what your secret thoughts are like? Or maybe, they aren’t secret at all & your sadism can be smelled a mile away by people with noses like mine. I think that’s the option that intrigues me most..

  • “Are you cold & intimidating?” Nope & depends on the context.
  • “Are you really a cranky old man?” Or a pompous moldering asshole. Take your pick.
  • “Or are you actually…” I’m polite to people and try to treat them the way I’d like to be treated.
Read the rest “I’m intrigued by your blog in many ways, of course, but something I’ve always wondered is what you’re like outside this? Are you cold & intimidating? Are you really a ‘cranky old man’? Or are you actually really sweet to your family & friends, maybe you have a dog & a nice house & nobody would suspect what your secret thoughts are like? Or maybe, they aren’t secret at all & your sadism can be smelled a mile away by people with noses like mine. I think that’s the option that intrigues me most..”

Is it disqualifying for a girl to like diapers? Not in a central way, but like, I know even you are squicked out by them 🙈

Liking things I don’t like isn’t disqualifying. Because what you like doesn’t really matter to anyone.

And I’m not so much squicked as saddened. I mean, girl-butt is one of my favorite girl-parts, and a diaper just makes your ass look like a half-full garbage bag.… Read the rest “Is it disqualifying for a girl to like diapers? Not in a central way, but like, I know even you are squicked out by them 🙈”

Ok I realise that this is one of those unanswerable questions but what would it take for you to destroy me? 😩

Since we’re agreed from the outset that it’s unanswerable, I’ll go ahead and answer.

I’d need:

  • Compelling evidence that you’re a waste of space as you are.
  • Even more compelling evidence that there are parts of you worth salvaging.
  • An understanding that I own your rubble, and shall make of it what I will.
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Not really an ask, but things have been rough lately. I’ve known like 6 people who died in the last 2 weeks, and I just wanted to thank you for being a lovely distraction when I’m feeling that impossible sad/angry/anxious feeling. Also thank you for responding to my birthday request… eventually. I saved the screen shot and it makes me smile when I’m sad. I know I’m just another fan girl, but thanks for what you do for us broken girls because sometimes you are glue.

You darling children are being so sweet lately! I swear, you’re gonna get me feeling all mushy.

I know it’s difficult right now. For some of you, it’s fucking agonizing. But it’s gonna be okay.

And even if it isn’t, I can at least help you find a way to make the misery useful.… Read the rest “Not really an ask, but things have been rough lately. I’ve known like 6 people who died in the last 2 weeks, and I just wanted to thank you for being a lovely distraction when I’m feeling that impossible sad/angry/anxious feeling. Also thank you for responding to my birthday request… eventually. I saved the screen shot and it makes me smile when I’m sad. I know I’m just another fan girl, but thanks for what you do for us broken girls because sometimes you are glue.”