How to meet her at her level, where she lives. How to speak her language, and then become better at it than she is.
And then change her language. Colonize it. Pervert it until she doesn’t know where she ends and I begin. Until she realizes it’s really all just me, all the way through. Until she sees it’s better to be a piece of me than all of her.
Or put another way: the hardest thing is all the learning. And then all the teaching.