Do you have any kind of prioritisation between your girls? Some poly people have one “main” relationship where that person comes first
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Well, one of them has been with me for 30 years… tenure has its privileges.
But in general, the girls are all at very different places in their lives… they have unique resources and opportunities that make them more or less available/suitable in specific situations. Their collective job is to be useful, and any prioritization largely derives from their usefulness.